How Does a 15-year old Save for a Car?

Ryan just bought a car. And she’s a beauty, too. 2002 baby blue Toyota Prius with only 57,000 miles. Owned by a 91-year old grannie who used it mostly to drive to church and back. No kidding. Problem is, Ryan can’t drive it; never mind he doesn’t have his license. He barely has his permit. And taking an online course to get his permit happened after he bought the car.

How does a 15-year old with no permit end up with a pretty snappy car sitting at the bottom of the driveway? It starts with a plan.

When Ryan was 11 years old he got his first job. He delivered papers once a week after school. Most of that money went directly into his savings account. Although he was responsible for all his discretionary spending, there wasn’t a whole lot he spent money on. John and I customized his interest rate (KidsSave was a great help in this area), so that the more he saved, the more he ended up with. This was a great incentive. But an even greater incentive was the offer his grandmother gave him. She would match him dollar for dollar on his first car.

Over the years he added soccer reffing, teaching math centers, and yard work for our neighbor to his list of jobs. He also did the occasional lemonade and root beer float stand. Then there were his buys and sells on ebay. Again, most of it went into his savings account. Although I have to mention here, just in case you may think he never enjoys spending money, he bought his own $350 mountain bike, an ipod touch, golf clubs and other pretty pricey items. He knows when to save and he knows when to spend.

But my main point is that, when you have a goal in mind, when you know what you want and have figured out the steps to get there, it’s easier to keep your eyes on the target. That’s the power of goal setting. It keeps us focused. Even when you’re eleven years old.

Four years later the perfect opportunity presented itself. We live near a community college which doubles as a used car lot on the weekends. Nathan and Ryan, just playing around on the computer one day, discovered that a used Prius would be on the lot. A Prius is exactly what Ryan wanted. He’s my little eco-friendly kid.

The stars seemed to be aligning for him. About six months ahead of when he had planned on buying a car, it was an opportunity not to be missed. An opportunity on a variety of levels. This was his first major negotiation and he wanted to do it himself. So John and I prepped him. He needed to know exactly what his maximum offer would be. Start low, move up.

The owner, through her grandson, was asking $10,000. Ryan went in at $8800. They came back at $9200 which was exactly what Ryan had hoped. He had just made his first deal.

After registration and taxes, the total came to $9796. Split with his grandmother, Ryan’s share was $4898. He paid in cash. That’s how a committed 15-year old buys his first car.

Teaching our kids to set personal financial goals when they are young is so important. It starts with the little things…a video game then a bike then an ipad. They learn it’s possible and begin saving for the bigger things. To see how it’s done, check out this video:

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How To Encourage Kids to Save Money

This is the first in a series of Kids and Money Quick Tips videos that I will be putting together. This first one is on getting kids in the habit of saving money.

Money Reflections

Excerpted from Beyond the Piggy Bank, a 15-Day Challenge

One of the goals for this Challenge is to develop healthy attitudes about money in our children. Since YOU have the greatest impact on what your kids learn about money, it’s important to take a little time to reflect honestly on the money messages you are sending them.

Ask yourself the following questions. To help clarify your thoughts, you may want to write your responses down on paper.

~What is my attitude towards money?
~Is money a good thing, a bad thing, am I indifferent about money, does money annoy me, is more money better, do I complain about money a lot…
~Why do I feel this way about money?
~What attitude about money are my kids observing in me?
~Which money personality reflects me the most?

–Worrier: I’m always fretting about money
–Carefree Spender: I love spending money. I’ll deal with the consequences later…maybe.
–Penny Pincher/Hoarder: I’m not worried about money, I just don’t like spending any.
–Giver: I’m always buying stuff for my friends and giving them money. I’ll worry about myself later.
–Saver: Yippee! I get to balance my checkbook and maybe put some more into my Roth IRA.
–Avoider: Honestly, do I really have to think about managing my money?

~What are the pluses about my money personality? What are the minuses? How can I improve the minuses?
~How do my kids see me manage money? Am I happy with that? If not, how can I change?
~How would I like my kids to manage money when they are older?
~What money attitude would I like my kids to have as adults?

Once you reflect on and understand more about your own personal feelings towards money, you are in a better position to help your kids develop healthy money attitudes.

Teaching Money Values

We impart our values to our kids through our words and our actions. Mostly our actions. Take a moment to reflect on the things you value. Integrity, compassion, honesty, persistence, courage, patience… Now think about an action that can be associated with each one. For example, returning the unpaid can of tuna you discovered in the shopping cart ~ honesty. Or volunteering to speak at the board meeting even though the thought of speaking in front of people makes you mildly ill ~ courage. ūüôā

Now think about the kind of values you want your kids to live by when they grow up. Since kids do most of their learning through observation (they’re quite good at it!), it’s important to think about the messages your behavior is sending. Are you living the values that you want to help define your kids as adults?

The Money Connection: Our values are also imparted to our kids through the way we handle our money. We teach generosity when we share with those less fortunate than us. We teach responsibility and delayed gratification when we put a little of our money aside for the future. And when we splurge on a fancy dinner out we teach that it’s good to enjoy, as well.

Conversely, shopping impulsively teaches kids that the value of a dollar is not important. Not to mention the messages sent about lack of self-discipline. And holding too tightly onto money teaches kids that experiencing life is not important.

So take time every now and then to reflect on the choices you make on a daily basis. Because how you live life is how you live your values.

The Other Literacy…Financial Literacy

We all know that literacy, the ability to read and write, is an important life skill.¬† It’s so important that we often create an environment at home to reflect this.¬† We start reading to our kids from an early age, years before they know how to read themselves.¬† We surround our kids with all kinds of reading materials from books, to magazines, to newspapers, to grocery lists.¬†
 
And then, to underscore the importance of reading even more, we read in front of them.  Yup, we pick up the newspaper or magazine and absorb the words on the pages while our kids are watching.
 
When they begin to read on their own, we ask them questions about the plot and characters. 
 
At school, monthly book orders are sent home and assemblies bring in authors who talk about how they write their books.  We even reward kids with stickers on classroom charts or refrigerators at home reflecting pages read. 
 
It’s hard to grow up in an environment such as this and¬†miss the message that reading and writing is important.¬†¬†

The Money Connection:¬†¬†¬†There’s another type of literacy which is just as important that isn’t quite as integrated into our environment.¬† Financial literacy.¬† Simply stated, financial literacy is the ability to effectively and comfortably deal with issues relating to money in a way that benefits us.¬† It’s important for things such as budgeting, understanding credit, and investing. ¬†

We need¬†to be just as passionate about our kids learning financial literacy as we are about teaching them reading and writing literacy.¬† But since financial literacy in the elementary and middle school curriculum is not where it should be, we’re going to need to do double-duty at home.¬† Without obsessing about money, this simply means that we need to be aware of opportunities to sneak in a few life lessons.
 
Here is a starter list of ways to create an environment where learning about money is simply a natural part of your everyday routine, thus underscoring its importance: 

1. Talk about money from an early age – how it is earned, how there is a limited supply, the importance of making good spending choices, how to be a good consumer, etc.

2. Just like a book is the tool we use to teach kids how to read, money is the tool we use to teach kids how to become good money managers.  Give your kids money on a regular basis (an allowance is the most popular way) and then have them be responsible for their discretionary spending.

3. Create a list of extra jobs kids can do around the house to earn additional money.

4. Share your savings goals with your kids and have them create their own.

5. Have tweens and teens keep track of their spending in a registry so they get an idea of where their money goes as well as learn how to keep a running balance.

6. As an incentive to get your child to save, offer to match their savings dollar for dollar.

7. Always look for teachable moments, such as being out shopping, to tie in important money ideas.

Kids learn to become good readers through reading.¬† By the same token, kids learn to be good money managers through doing money.¬† Providing your kids with money to manage and initiating on-going money discussions at home will help build the financial foundation so necessary for success in today’s society.

Getting Kids EXCITED About Saving Money

When Ryan was seven years old, John and I discovered he had a spending problem. As serious as a seven year old can have. It was all about Pokemon cards. Each week he would drain his money on the cute cards in hopes of striking it rich with a rare Charzard.

But not wanting that spending problem to grow into a bad spending habit, we decided to introduce Ryan to compound interest. We wanted to see if the idea of money growing on itself (because he saved it), would have an impact on him. We also wanted to have the idea of saving his money come directly from him.

So we sat him down at the computer, along with his brother Nathan who was a terrific saver already, and plugged 10% monthly interest (parents can do that!) into a spreadsheet. The graph that was generated on the initial $100 we set up, shocked him. Then on came the lightbulb when he realized that saving his money would mean he would end up with even more money. He was a believer. It was this moment that began our work on KidsSave.

Compound interest. Einstein, a very smart dude, called it the eighth wonder of the world. He also called it the greatest force in the universe. And if anyone should know about the universe and force, it’d be Einstein.

And it was compound interest, interest that grows on itself, that made Ryan the saver he is today.

So I’ve put together two videos to illustrate the power of compounding so that you can show your kids this “magic” and get them just as excited as Ryan got. Of course, you could also use our kids’ savings and money management software, KidsSave, as it was the very first thing we designed for the program.

Here’s my most recent video. It’s on the Rule of 72. Don’t know the beauty of the Rule of 72? Then take a peek. It’s pretty amazing. And if it gets your kids excited about saving, let me know!

And after you watch the video, ask your kids what would happen if they invested $2000 instead of $1000…

Watch this VERY COOL video.

Personal Finance for Kids?

So it happened again to me today, and it’s happened enough that I decided to write about it…and solicit your help.

I was chatting with a woman I just met about this, that, and the other, when, inevitably, the question so what do you do? comes up. She’s a stay-at-home mom, nice, and I told her I was a kids’ personal finance educator.

“You can teach personal finance to kids?” she, and just about everyone else, asks.

Now don’t get me wrong. Until my youngest, Ryan, began to exhibit extreme carefree spending tendencies, the idea had never really occurred to me, either. At least, not beyond giving him an allowance. But if you think about it, setting up an allowance system is most definitely a form of personal finance.

At least it should be.

It’s not enough that kids get money. It’s important that we teach them what to do with that money. Things that we do with our own adult personal finances: save, spend, share, invest, borrow, budget. We need to do it in a way that gives kids real, hands-on experiences with their money so that they’ll get the practice they need before we send them out into the world.

And the good news is, it’s not that hard to do. Even if you don’t feel “qualified”. And while we’re doing it, we need make ‘personal finance for kids’ a recognized phrase.

So I’d love to have your help. It would be great if you could help spread the word about the importance of teaching kids money while they are still young.

In addition, I want to be a resource for parents. My Raised for Richness Facebook page is filled with all kinds of tips and research studies. It’s a great place for parents to start.

I am also working hard to make our website a resource, as well. We’ve included a bunch of free stuff recently.

And then there are the Beyond-the-Piggy-Bank Challenges filled with the specific steps needed to begin teaching personal finance. I do these periodically and if you email me, I’ll get another one scheduled soon.

So let’s start a movement! Let’s get the word out make ‘kids and personal finance’ just a regular part of our everyday language. Together we can make a difference.